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A running log of monologues written mid-build or mid-burnout that don't fit in a blog or tweet.
#27: Walking in public
All of us, pedestrians, in our day-to-day lives are doing a cooperative dance whenever we are walking. We are dancing without even knowing we are dancing.
We don’t bump into each other. We have a weird (however, explainable) understanding while walking. While walking, we sense the space around us. These are objects like trees, stones on the walkway, a planter, a staircase, sudden steps, puddle, sand. These are also, and more importantly, people who are around us either walking or standing by the road-side shop or a tobacco shop, juice shop and the likes.
We naturally align to the rhythm of the group pace, we naturally avoid bumping into each other, we subconsciously are looking at each other in different ways.
Sometimes, it’s the body language, a peripheral vision capture when you see someone speeding up towards you or away from you, the speed of the person in front of you, the sound of the racing footsteps coming from behind, the increasing volume of people talking, the sound of the cars and how it might lead some walkers to change their ongoing rhythm.
There’s another interesting thing. People who are either on phone help up against their ear or with earphones on. I’m like that sometimes. Whenever I go for an hour long plus walks alone, I prefer either talking to my parents a bit followed by a podcast.
I miss out on all the signals that keep the natural rhythm of walking with a crowd. I don’t get the ambient sound or don’t pay any attention to them. I don’t hear footsteps, or any sound coming from any other sources.
I’m mostly registering visual cues without realising. I am focusing a lot more to focus on what I’m listening to than what’s around me. Only the absolute unique or absurd thing catches my eye. Most others get ignored.
We were never taught about these. We don’t even know we know this cooperative dance.
#27: Walking in public
All of us, pedestrians, in our day-to-day lives are doing a cooperative dance whenever we are walking. We are dancing without even knowing we are dancing.
We don’t bump into each other. We have a weird (however, explainable) understanding while walking. While walking, we sense the space around us. These are objects like trees, stones on the walkway, a planter, a staircase, sudden steps, puddle, sand. These are also, and more importantly, people who are around us either walking or standing by the road-side shop or a tobacco shop, juice shop and the likes.
We naturally align to the rhythm of the group pace, we naturally avoid bumping into each other, we subconsciously are looking at each other in different ways.
Sometimes, it’s the body language, a peripheral vision capture when you see someone speeding up towards you or away from you, the speed of the person in front of you, the sound of the racing footsteps coming from behind, the increasing volume of people talking, the sound of the cars and how it might lead some walkers to change their ongoing rhythm.
There’s another interesting thing. People who are either on phone help up against their ear or with earphones on. I’m like that sometimes. Whenever I go for an hour long plus walks alone, I prefer either talking to my parents a bit followed by a podcast.
I miss out on all the signals that keep the natural rhythm of walking with a crowd. I don’t get the ambient sound or don’t pay any attention to them. I don’t hear footsteps, or any sound coming from any other sources.
I’m mostly registering visual cues without realising. I am focusing a lot more to focus on what I’m listening to than what’s around me. Only the absolute unique or absurd thing catches my eye. Most others get ignored.
We were never taught about these. We don’t even know we know this cooperative dance.
#27: Walking in public
All of us, pedestrians, in our day-to-day lives are doing a cooperative dance whenever we are walking. We are dancing without even knowing we are dancing.
We don’t bump into each other. We have a weird (however, explainable) understanding while walking. While walking, we sense the space around us. These are objects like trees, stones on the walkway, a planter, a staircase, sudden steps, puddle, sand. These are also, and more importantly, people who are around us either walking or standing by the road-side shop or a tobacco shop, juice shop and the likes.
We naturally align to the rhythm of the group pace, we naturally avoid bumping into each other, we subconsciously are looking at each other in different ways.
Sometimes, it’s the body language, a peripheral vision capture when you see someone speeding up towards you or away from you, the speed of the person in front of you, the sound of the racing footsteps coming from behind, the increasing volume of people talking, the sound of the cars and how it might lead some walkers to change their ongoing rhythm.
There’s another interesting thing. People who are either on phone help up against their ear or with earphones on. I’m like that sometimes. Whenever I go for an hour long plus walks alone, I prefer either talking to my parents a bit followed by a podcast.
I miss out on all the signals that keep the natural rhythm of walking with a crowd. I don’t get the ambient sound or don’t pay any attention to them. I don’t hear footsteps, or any sound coming from any other sources.
I’m mostly registering visual cues without realising. I am focusing a lot more to focus on what I’m listening to than what’s around me. Only the absolute unique or absurd thing catches my eye. Most others get ignored.
We were never taught about these. We don’t even know we know this cooperative dance.
#26: Vanishing footpaths
#26: Vanishing footpaths
#26: Vanishing footpaths
#25: Lunch box
#25: Lunch box
#25: Lunch box
#24: Text in the world
#24: Text in the world
#24: Text in the world
#23: Koramangala's WIP
#23: Koramangala's WIP
#23: Koramangala's WIP
#22: Mall plants
#22: Mall plants
#22: Mall plants
#21: Hold hands
#21: Hold hands
#21: Hold hands
#20: Micro-adjustments
#20: Micro-adjustments
#20: Micro-adjustments
#19: The joy of low stakes
#19: The joy of low stakes
#19: The joy of low stakes
#18: Gifting
#18: Gifting
#18: Gifting
#17: Attention span
#17: Attention span
#17: Attention span
#16: Work desk
#16: Work desk
#16: Work desk
#15: Scarcity
#15: Scarcity
#15: Scarcity
#14: Brushing at night
#14: Brushing at night
#14: Brushing at night
#13: Instagram feed
#13: Instagram feed
#13: Instagram feed
#12: The last 5%
#12: The last 5%
#12: The last 5%
#11: Ordinary
#11: Ordinary
#11: Ordinary
#10: The myth of 'balance'
#10: The myth of 'balance'
#10: The myth of 'balance'
#9: My online versions
#9: My online versions
#9: My online versions
#8: Meetings
#8: Meetings
#8: Meetings
#7: Stoicism
#7: Stoicism
#7: Stoicism
#6: The safest bet
#6: The safest bet
#6: The safest bet
#5: Walking alone
#5: Walking alone
#5: Walking alone
#4. Feedback fatigue
#4. Feedback fatigue
#4. Feedback fatigue
#3. Things I don't tell my parents
#3. Things I don't tell my parents
#3. Things I don't tell my parents
#2. Coffee mug & busy people
#2. Coffee mug & busy people
#2. Coffee mug & busy people
#1. The 'after-this-week' lie
#1. The 'after-this-week' lie
#1. The 'after-this-week' lie