The moment we get bored, we reach for a screen. Ten seconds later, dopamine hits. A hundred swipes later, nothing. We mistake stimulation for satisfaction. There was a time when an empty evening meant sketching, tinkering, fixing, or just making something dumb because it felt good. Now, “free time” means doing what everyone else is doing: consuming.
Then came the “monetise everything” era. Can’t paint without someone asking if you sell prints. Can’t bake bread without being told to start a channel. The second money enters, curiosity leaves. We’ve forgotten how to do things that don’t scale.
A hobby feeds you back. You finish a session and feel different, you feel less tense and more alive. Most of what people call hobbies today are just distractions. Scrolling isn't a hobby. Shopping new shoes, coffee grinders, pens isn't a hobby if the excitement ends at unboxing and you're not creating anything. Even fitness streaks aren't a hobby if it's just for scoring health badges. It is if you're learning form, building strength and routing. Uploading photos daily, checking likes. If you're posting, writing, shooting, because you care about the work, then it's a hobby.
Hobbies are important. They give you competence and flow. They’re proof that your hands and brain can still cooperate without an app telling them what to do. When you’re learning to play an instrument, shape clay for pottery, or roast coffee right, your brain shuts up. You stop running background tabs in the mind. You stop checking who’s watching. That peace? That’s what hobbies give you.
If you don't have one, cut the noise first. No phone. No Netflix. No tabs. Sit with boredom long enough that you start itching to do something. Anything. You can make things. Build furniture, cook food, draw something, fix something broken in house, do pottery. You can learn guitar chords, knife skills in the kitchen, code a small utility tool, shoot and edit photos. You can explore the locality by walking with a camera, sketch in a museum, hike a new trail, or go somewhere new.
If you're still lost, take a class. Pottery. Bread. Woodwork. Photography. Anything. Pay someone to teach you. Borrow their tools. Be a beginner again. Remember, you were built to make, not just consume.